We are all naturally attracted to people with ideas, beliefs andinterests like their own.
We are all naturally attracted to people with ideas, beliefs and
interests like their own. Similarly, we feel comfortable with physical
qualities similar as ours. 【M1】 ______
We may have noticed about how people who live or work closely 【M2】 ______
together come to behave in a similar way. Unconsciously we copy these 【M3】 ______
we are close to or love or admire. So a sportsman's individual way of
walking with raised shoulders is imitated by an admired fan; a pair of 【M4】 ______
lovers both shake their heads in the same way; an employer finds 【M5】 ______
himself copying his boss's habit of wagging a pen between his fingers
while thinking.
In every case, the influential person may consciously notice the 【M6】 ______
imitation but he will feel comfortably in his presence. And if he does 【M7】 ______
notice the matching of his gestures or movements, he finds it pleasing
he is influencing people: they are drawn to them. 【M8】 ______
Sensitive people have been mirroring their friend and acquaintances 【M9】 ______
all their lives, and winning affection and respect in this way
without aware of their methods. Now, for people who want to win 【M10】 ______
agreement or trust, affection or sympathy, some psychologists
recommend the deliberate use of. physical imitation.
【M1】