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According to Luskin, to forgive an unfaithful husband, a wife needs to________.
A．urge herself to see the hurt as nothing
B．take measures in restoring the marriage
C．persuade herself to put up with the hurt
D．see herself as the guardian of the marriage
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第1题
According to Luskin, to forgive an unfaithful husband, a wife needs to________
[A] urge herself to see hurt as nothing
[B] take measures in restoring the marriage
[C] persuade herself to put up with the hurt
[D] see herself as the guardian of the marriage
第2题
A．the person who hurt you may have no intention of apologizing
B．forgiveness means reconciliation with the person who hurt you
C．the person who hurt you may have wanted to hurt you
D．people just don’t see things the same way
第3题
How to Forgive
To forgive may be divine, but no one ever said it was easy. When someone has deeply hurt you, it can be extremely difficult to let go of your grudge. But forgiveness is possible—and it can be surprisingly beneficial to your physical and mental health. “People who forgive show less depression, anger and stress and more hopefulness,” says Frederic Luskin, Ph. D., author of Forgive for Good (Harper Collins, 2002). “So it can help save on the wear and tear on our organs, reduce the wearing out of the immune system and allow people to feel more vital.”
So how do you start the healing？ Try following these steps: Calm yourself. To defuse your anger, try a simple stress-management technique. “Take a couple of breaths and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, someone you love,” Luskin says. Don’t wait for an apology. “Many times the person who hurt you has no intention of apologizing,” Luskin says. “They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don’t see things the same way. So if you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting an awfully long time.” Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean reconciliation with the person who upset you or condoning of his or her action. Take the control away from your offender. Mentally replaying your hurt gives power to the person who caused you pain. “Instead of focusing on your wounded feelings, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you,” Luskin says. Try to see things from the other person’s perspective. If you empathize with that person, you may realize that he or she was acting out of ignorance, fear—even love. To gain perspective, you may want to write a letter to yourself from your offender’s point of view. Recognize the benefits of forgiveness. Research has shown that people who forgive report more energy, better appetite and better sleep patterns. Don’t forget to forgive yourself. “For people, forgiving themselves is the biggest challenge,” Luskin says. “But it can rob you of your self-confidence if you don’t.”
According to the passage, which of the following statements of forgiveness is NOT true？______
A．Forgiveness is easy.
B．Forgiveness is possible.
C．Forgiveness can benefit your physical and mental health.
D．Forgiveness is great.
第4题
Dr. Luskin advises us not to wait for an apology after being hurt because______.
A．we are not patient enough
B．we'd feel worse accepting others' apology
C．people seldom want to apologize
D．people don't mean it when they apologize
第5题
So when someone has hurt you, calm yourself first. Take a couple of breaths and think of something that gives you pleasure: a beautiful scene in nature, someone you love. Don't wait for an apology. "Many times the person who hurt you may never think of apologizing," says Dr. Luskin. "They may have wanted to hurt you or they just don't see things the same way. So if you wait for people to apologize, you could be waiting a very long time." Keep in mind that forgiveness does not necessarily mean accepting the action of the person who upset you. Mentally going over your hurt gives power to the person who brought you pain. Instead, learn to look for the love, beauty and kindness around you. Finally, try to see things from the other person's perspective (视角). You may realize that he or she was acting out of ignorance (无知), fear— even love. To gain perspective, you may want to write a letter to yourself from that person's point of view.
The text is mainly written to explain______.
A．how to keep yourself from being hurt
B．how to stay mentally healthy
C．how and when to remain calm
D．why and how to pardon others
第6题
______ can be a "treat", according to the text.
A．Candy
B．Flour
C．Noise
D．Costume party
第7题
According to the passage, the author had a predisposition for panic.
A．Y
B．N
C．NG
第8题
According to the Context rule, weather-speak can be used as a simple greeting, ________, and a filler.
第9题
We should cultivate these children according to their innate abilities.
A．celestial
B．different
C．splendid
D．inherent
